We finally heard about what happened in court on Tuesday. It is pretty much what we expected. Let 's just say that this is not going to be an easy road for the Elliott family...but not impossible for God.
The birthmom has 6-18 months to "get her act together." She has twice a week visits with the baby (she has to call to set up the visits with our social worker and she hasn't even called yet.). She has other things that she needs to do.
They asked the Grandparents if they wanted to adopt the baby and they said that they were not sure. They are going back to court next week to discuss it further.
They also will contact the birthfather and his family to see if any of them want the baby.
Matt and I (and our social worker) feel like if any one is going to get the baby it is going to be the grandparents. I wish that they would know that if Matt and I adopted her then they would have some sort of contact with her. I think they think that is it "all or nothing". They either have to adopt her or they will never hear about her ever again.
Please pray that they get a chance to know that Matt and I would be willing to have an open adoption. (pictures, letters,maybe visits)
Pray that we find out more of the grandparents hearts on Wednesday and what they are thinking.
Pray for our emotions and that we honor God through everything that comes our way.
Pray for BGE (baby girl elliott) as she is sick right now(bad cold)...that her insurance card will get straightened out so that I can take her to the Dr. tomorrow.
Matt and I are so thankful for your love and concern for us. God is so good.
3 comments:
Kelli,
I am captivated while reading your posts and challenged (your J Bridges stuff-so convicting!) and encouraged (your family is such a great picture of how God has ordained families to be) and excited (who knows what God's specific plans are) and convicted to pray, pray, pray.
What truly wonderful gifts that we can all trust in the same, almighty, heavenly Father and have the internet to share how He chooses to answer those requests. ;)
Thanks for the reminder to all of us to be thankful for every moment we have together. We are praying for you guys...
Wow, Kelli...I am glad you finally got at least some idea of what is going on. What a great opportunity to lean on the Lord. He is so faithful and it is amazing to see how He is using you guys right now in so many different ways! Praying for the Lord's peace and continued guidance for you.
Kel,
We will keep on praying. What a blessing that she is being loved and cared for now even though her future is unclear. What a comfort to know that nothing will happen that is out of the Lord's plan.
Love you.
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